6 October 2008

FRIEND SURVIVAL SKILLS

Making friends can be easy, but close-knitted friendships are hard to come by. If you have your best bud with you, consider yourself lucky friendship is an honour and a gift, never forget to treasure and care for it.

Here are some friend survival skills for us to think of… enjoy it!!! J J J Isabella Angel Lane©

FRIEND SURVIVAL SKILLS

  1. SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE

Admit that you’re wrong and apologies! Don’t wait until the problem gets worse. Never allow your EGO to get the better of you.

  1. RECONCILE

It would be better if the person who is in the wrong takes the initiative to settle, but it doesn’t really matter. It will be hard to patch things up if both of you remain silent. It can even break up to a standstill. Try to apologise first. This gives your friend the opportunity to admit she screwed up, too.

  1. UNDERSTAND

See things from her point of view. Respect, tolerate and value each other’s differences. If you’re hurt by something she did, let her know. Don’t be angry.

  1. KNOW THAT RELATIONSHIPS WILL CHANGE

People changes; it’s a disappointment when buddies start to have less common. But that doesn’t mean you’ve reached the end of road. The friendship is not over. Accept that the both of you have drifted apart and move on from there but be there for her if she ever needs you.

By: Isabella Angel lane©

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